My first husband carried his rage just beneath the surface of his skin, and although he never raised a hand to me, I was always afraid if his anger. My second husband, the man I am married to now, is an angry man. In fact, he loves to quote the scene in The Avengers when Hulk is needed and Captain America (my husband’s favorite hero) says to Bruce Banner, “Dr. Banner, now would be a good time to get angry.” To which Banner replies, “That’s my secret, Cap. I’m always angry.” M